Do you ever get sick and tired of this sight??
I mean. REALLY, R.E.A.L.L.Y. tired of it.
I do.
Those tasks that have to be repeated every day are the ones that get me the most.
No matter what strategy I use, I never gain the upper hand on them.
The dirty laundry piles up again before I ever get the clean clothes back into the drawers.
Before I put the last dish in the cupboard, there's already a little army of drinking glasses gathering on the counter top.
Even in the middle of mopping the floor, I've turned around only to discover more muddy tracks.
Really!!?! You're hungry again!!?! You've got to be kidding me. I just fed you several hours ago.
More grass stains??!! I just scrubbed your pants yesterday!!!
Clean windows? I try.
So much of what I do seems so small and insignificant and mindless.
To add insult to injury, I have been repeating these sames tasks DAILY for the last 14 years and it doesn't look like my job description will be changing in the foreseeable future.
Wasn't I created for more than this!!??!
Would anyone even notice if I shirked?
I am tempted to call off sick.
Or pretend I can't see what needs to be done.
Praise the Lord if you do not struggle with growing weary in the mundane tasks of life.
I admire you.
You are miles a head of people like me who sit around trying to come up with new strategies every few weeks for coping with the gritty demands of life.
Speaking of strategies, I really have tried to approach my responsibilities from all different angles and perspectives in order to bring more purpose and joy to my every day life.
Some angles haven't helped much.
There is one perspective that has made all the difference.
At the end of the day, the only place where I find true sustaining power to get up and prepare another meal or wipe another rump or fold another load of laundry is in the fact that I am called to be a servant.
Being called to be a servant is not a less than job. Neither is it glamorous.
He calls each of his children to follow his example. In fact, He tells us to imitate him.
I rejoice in the fact that the realities of my life grant me ample opportunity to grow in servant-hood on a daily basis.
I am given opportunity upon opportunity to embrace servant-hood.
No job is too small or insignificant when it is done out of love for Jesus and for other people.
Embracing servant-hood as a Follower of Jesus is the way to find joy in the mundane.
Do I perfectly keep this perspective?
Absolutely not.
But my heart's desire is to grow in the grace and knowledge of Jesus Christ my Lord. Every day, by His grace and power, I want to choose servant-hood.
Lord, Make me a servant, Lord make me like you.
For you are a servant, make me one too.
Lord, make me a servant, do what you must do.
To make me a servant; make me like YOU!!!
I totally get this! Especially the dirty laundry part. It seems I never get ahead.... But as they say we will look back fondly on these days! Mim
ReplyDeleteSomething that helps keep it in perspective (at times)for me is looking on the flip side. No dirty dishes=no food, no dirty clothes= maybe no clothes or no one to wear them.etc.I have a lot to be thankful for even if I'm swamped with work. We're a crazy8 family too.
ReplyDeleteAnd it WILL be noticed if you shirk!! Hard as it is to keep up with it all, if you don't even try it gets really ugly really fast! I like this perspective of remembering that we are called to be servants and have Jesus as our example. Sometimes I think too that hey, I'm a daughter of a King, right? What's with this dirty work? But I guess even the earthly princesses are most useful and likeable and worthwhile when they actually care about other people and are willing to serve instead of expecting to be served all the time. And from what I can tell on your blog, you're actually doing a great job of being a mom, keeping up with the work, and teaching your children to be responsible servants too. You'll see the payoff...hopefully before you're your mother's age.
ReplyDeleteSarah, mom of 6, ages 11-1
Yes!! (To answer that first question.) And at the end of the day when I'm feeling good about getting the laundry all done, everyone gets baths and the laundry basket fills right back up! In one day! I have five children ages 1-8 and we are excited about adding another in 8 wks! Can't wait to refer to my family as crazy 8:) :) love it. Thanks for writing. I found your blog inspiring and humerous. As I was reading through it I figured out you are a cousin to my cousins. Strite. Small world. Mag
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